How do you know when you are ready for a serious relationship? You know that we care a lot about rescuing people from abusive relationships. We want to help them learn the skills they need to change their situation and gain a strong, loving, … [Read more...]
Do you have a plan for your own life?
There are two ways of doing life: a) Living life as it happens, in a naive way, adapting yourself to what life dishes out to you ( as the facts of family of origin; level of poverty/wealth; educational possibilities; personal health, etc), being … [Read more...]
How to deal with emotional turmoil?
Conflict-seeking people have mastered all your emotional buttons, and they push them with regularity. Here, we want to remember that it takes two to tango. When you are ready to deny them the drama and adrenaline rush (by behaving calmer and less … [Read more...]
Do love and needs satisfaction go together?
We all have deep needs, which move us to search for satisfaction. We crave security, excitement, love and connection and recognition. How do we go about finding solutions? It has multiple ways, some of them not so fulfilling as others. And … [Read more...]
Love and connection
There is some confusion around the question: whose job is to make you happy? There seems to be two answers: 1) It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy. Has to do with a basic contract in marriage by which we will try to solve reciprocal … [Read more...]
