There are two ways of doing life: a) Living life as it happens, in a naive way, adapting yourself to what life dishes out to you ( as the facts of family of origin; level of poverty/wealth; educational possibilities; personal health, etc), being … [Read more...]
Why do you need to watch your beliefs? Let me tell you!
We go through life moved by a set of automatic beliefs accepted way back in our past when we didn't know better...Regardless of that, now those core beliefs rule our lives. Now, it's natural to believe that we are no good at math or that with our … [Read more...]
Do love and needs satisfaction go together?
We all have deep needs, which move us to search for satisfaction. We crave security, excitement, love and connection and recognition. How do we go about finding solutions? It has multiple ways, some of them not so fulfilling as others. And … [Read more...]
Love and connection
There is some confusion around the question: whose job is to make you happy? There seems to be two answers: 1) It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy. Has to do with a basic contract in marriage by which we will try to solve reciprocal … [Read more...]
Build relationship skills: assertion
We find too many times in situations where there is friction and a deep sense of frustration of basic emotional needs. In life, we deal with other people sometimes as short in skills as we are to be able to talk and express needs and negotiate … [Read more...]
