If yours is like thousands of other families, conflict is inevitable at the holidays, and somehow more painful than usual. And there are no available relationship repair strategies to be used.... Is it because we are bombarded with images and … [Read more...]
Are Decisions Logical or Based on Emotional Needs?
According to brain researchers: Emotional needs and passion are at the core of our decisions! As much as we may try to pretend otherwise, in our natural state, we really only use rational thinking when justifying our emotion-driven … [Read more...]
How to do Relationship Repair for this “Marriage Contract” ?
Sharing what Mark Waller, The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn, says in page 111, we have: “The subconscious agenda behind the wedding is that this other person will finally heal our pain. Of course, we are completely unaware of our pain … [Read more...]
When Communications Hurt
We all know that sometimes a fight doesn't end with the words of forgiveness. Sometimes past hurts linger in the back of our mind, and without us really thinking about it, we fling those hurts back into the fight that happens the next day, week, or … [Read more...]
How dirty is your fighting style? Want to learn how to fight fair?
We have posted before about the value of fighting with love instead of anger. Using calm dialogue and speaking with respect ("fighting" with "love") is always a better option during conflict; fighting fire with fire, with the aim of someone winning … [Read more...]
