Here is my Valentine’s Day message for you!

   Everybody wants to have a happy Valentine's Day receiving love and appreciation from their loved ones, today.  If you happen to have some marital difficulties, this seemingly simple aspiration seems to become  an  impossible wish. So, you can … [Read more...]

How do You Have a Secure Relationship?

It's important that both sides of a couple can trust the strength of their secure relationship.  Often the insecurities of one partner affect the entire foundation for both.  So helping your partner to feel more secure will in turn make you feel more … [Read more...]

A Healthy Response to an Anger Attack

   Very often, people express their anger by “venting” so releasing their boil of unhappy emotions by verbally exploding.  The explosion makes the angry person feel good temporarily by decreasing the pressure inside and making the angry person feel a … [Read more...]

How to do Relationship Repair for this “Marriage Contract” ?

  Sharing what Mark Waller, The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn, says in page 111, we have: “The subconscious agenda behind the wedding is that this other person will finally heal our pain. Of course, we are completely unaware of our pain … [Read more...]

How dirty is your fighting style? Want to learn how to fight fair?

We have posted before about the value of fighting with love instead of anger. Using calm dialogue and speaking with respect ("fighting" with "love") is always a better option during conflict; fighting fire with fire, with the aim of someone winning … [Read more...]