It's important that both sides of a couple can trust the strength of their secure relationship. Often the insecurities of one partner affect the entire foundation for both. So helping your partner to feel more secure will in turn make you feel more … [Read more...]
A Healthy Response to an Anger Attack
Very often, people express their anger by “venting” so releasing their boil of unhappy emotions by verbally exploding. The explosion makes the angry person feel good temporarily by decreasing the pressure inside and making the angry person feel a … [Read more...]
How to do Relationship Repair for this “Marriage Contract” ?
Sharing what Mark Waller, The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn, says in page 111, we have: “The subconscious agenda behind the wedding is that this other person will finally heal our pain. Of course, we are completely unaware of our pain … [Read more...]
How dirty is your fighting style? Want to learn how to fight fair?
We have posted before about the value of fighting with love instead of anger. Using calm dialogue and speaking with respect ("fighting" with "love") is always a better option during conflict; fighting fire with fire, with the aim of someone winning … [Read more...]
Gratitude makes for happy, healthy families
How can we promote happiness in our environment? Gratitude could very well be the key.Because many of us may lead busy and stressful lives that barely give us quality time to spend with our loved ones, we tend to forget that having them in our lives … [Read more...]
