How changing yourself affects your relationship

You have to begin changing yourself first! So many times people ask how they can change their passive aggressive partner....and my only response is: You can't! I know, it is discouraging....I would love to have another answer, but my only one … [Read more...]

The Abusive Relationship as a Lesson in Resilience?

CAN YOU SEE THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AS A LIFE LESSON IN RESILIENCE? There is much more information about how to identify emotional abuse, than  about the process of breaking free and healing from it. The preferred solution for the victim seems to … [Read more...]

Shame and Humiliation: Healing from Domestic Violence

Shame and Humiliation: my story of domestic violence. After a public discussion about  NFL player Ray Rice hitting his then fiancée unconscious inside an elevator, the floodgates were open in Twitter for women to share their own stories. Under … [Read more...]

Roadmap for a healthy marriage

Do you want the map for a healthy marriage? I want to share these six commandments for an amazing marriage with you, from a friendly blog. Follow them and you’ll do great! 1. COMMITMENT Be faithful – thou shalt not steal thy neighbor’s … [Read more...]

20 signs you are chasing an emotionally unavailable man

Are you dating an emotionally unavailable man? We have based a lot of posting on attachment theory and how it helps to explain what kind of connections we have in life. After reviewing secure, anxious and avoidant mindsets, we concluded that for the … [Read more...]