Creating “Terms and Conditions” in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship Healing from emotional abuse rarely starts with a change in the abuser – it starts with a change in the victim. You, as the victim, must affirm your need for a healthy … [Read more...]
Do you have a plan for your own life?
There are two ways of doing life: a) Living life as it happens, in a naive way, adapting yourself to what life dishes out to you ( as the facts of family of origin; level of poverty/wealth; educational possibilities; personal health, etc), being … [Read more...]
Love and connection
There is some confusion around the question: whose job is to make you happy? There seems to be two answers: 1) It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy. Has to do with a basic contract in marriage by which we will try to solve reciprocal … [Read more...]
Is your angry, silent partner a challenge?
How do you react to hubby's hostile silence? He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more … [Read more...]
