Love and connection

There is some confusion around the question: whose job is to make you happy? There seems to be two answers: 1) It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy. Has to do with a basic contract in marriage by which we will try to solve reciprocal … [Read more...]

Build relationship skills: assertion

We find too many times in situations where there is friction and a deep sense of frustration of basic emotional needs. In life, we deal with other people sometimes as short in skills as we are to be able to talk and express needs and negotiate … [Read more...]

Can emotional abuse be healed?

When you are a child, all the deal with the grown ups around you revolves on a single question: are they going to help you grow, develop and survive as to be happy as an adult? Or they either don't care about you, getting you in serious danger of … [Read more...]

Is your angry, silent partner a challenge?

How do you react to hubby's hostile silence?   He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more … [Read more...]

Getting the Cold Shoulder from Your Loved One?

  In life there are always difficult interpersonal situations, which force us into soul searching because we want to change fast what is hurting us so deeply. Are you kept by your loved one in hurtful, frustrating, and confusing isolation, and … [Read more...]