Do you have a healthy marriage? Well, it depends from another question, that we should ask before: Why do we get married? and the answers are so different as the kind of people we are: we marry to … [Read more...]
How do You Have a Secure Relationship?
It's important that both sides of a couple can trust the strength of their secure relationship. Often the insecurities of one partner affect the entire foundation for both. So helping your partner to feel more secure will in turn make you feel more … [Read more...]
How to do Relationship Repair for this “Marriage Contract” ?
Sharing what Mark Waller, The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn, says in page 111, we have: “The subconscious agenda behind the wedding is that this other person will finally heal our pain. Of course, we are completely unaware of our pain … [Read more...]
How to do Marital Fighting Without Anger
Marital fighting is part of married life. Couples who fight are happier - it is well-known. Long-term unhappiness and distrust are at the heart of couples who bury their problems down deep, afraid of the intimacy that fighting requires. However, it … [Read more...]
How dirty is your fighting style? Want to learn how to fight fair?
We have posted before about the value of fighting with love instead of anger. Using calm dialogue and speaking with respect ("fighting" with "love") is always a better option during conflict; fighting fire with fire, with the aim of someone winning … [Read more...]
