We go through life moved by a set of automatic beliefs accepted way back in our past when we didn't know better...Regardless of that, now those core beliefs rule our lives. Now, it's natural to believe that we are no good at math or that with our … [Read more...]
What’s your life project?
Sometimes, our purpose in life doesn't appear clear to us. We are pulled by other people's needs, demands and urgencies. Several institutions predicate their dogmas to us as to what kind of project we should follow: church, schools, political … [Read more...]
Love and connection
There is some confusion around the question: whose job is to make you happy? There seems to be two answers: 1) It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy. Has to do with a basic contract in marriage by which we will try to solve reciprocal … [Read more...]
Verbal Abuse is a Kind of Control
What is verbal abuse? the use of verbal communication to control, put down, and diminish the other person's self-image. This is a move in the greater battle between people, the "who controls whom" power play. Sometimes couples have an implicit … [Read more...]
