Trying to understand the confusion that his message: "I love you" causes in your brain, because he says that while he is always busy with everything else but you? Have you noticed that usually there is a thick curtain of technological devices … [Read more...]
Emotional Abuse: Hoping to Have a Healthier Marriage?
Along the days and the years of your marriage, perhaps you were all the time completely aware of the nagging feeling haunting you...perhaps a tiny question: is this all? IS THIS RELATIONSHIP BE LIKE IT IS NOW FOR EVER? You knew that there was not a … [Read more...]
The Promise of Marriage
Marriage is a covenant that requires a delicate balance between the members: the expectation is of reciprocal support and acceptance. When this attitude is not offered by itself, as part of the deal, some basic trust is broken. How this issue is … [Read more...]
Verbal Abuse is a Kind of Control
What is verbal abuse? the use of verbal communication to control, put down, and diminish the other person's self-image. This is a move in the greater battle between people, the "who controls whom" power play. Sometimes couples have an implicit … [Read more...]
How to Respond to an Anger Attack
For the chronically angry person, almost everything gives him the opportunity to feel affected and threatened. So, the usual reaction is verbal rage. Venting this rage makes the person feel powerful and in control over others, who have to retreat to … [Read more...]
