February 4, 2011 – 3:00 pm
According to the Coalition for Marriage, Family and Couples Education, the number one predecessor of divorce is avoiding conflict. Strong relationships are more immune to divorce because the couple handles conflict in a healthy, constructive way.
What about you? If you are reading this blog, you probably feel that your relationship is in danger of falling [...]
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Posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships
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Also tagged aggression, appreciation, coach nora, conflict coach, conflict nora, conflict resolution, confrontation, feelings, forgiveness, negative emotions, relationship conflict, Relationships
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December 15, 2010 – 12:55 pm
There can be many opportunities for you to feel the joy promised by the season…but also to feel that your buttons are pushed beyond your limits. It’s in your hands to have a simple plan to manage holidays stress with grace and class.
No more family anger explosions leaving a sour taste in your memory, and [...]
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Posted in Anger Management, Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships
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Also tagged anger, angry husband, attitude change, control, emotions, feelings, forgiveness, healthy relationships, hidden anger, resentment, respect, Self-Esteem
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October 11, 2010 – 10:55 am
It is usually painless to ask yourself whether or not you love someone. However, it is much harder to ask yourself whether or not you cause them emotional pain. When do you know that you are abusing someone you love?
To immediately ask yourself, “Do I abuse my partner?” may cause you to panic. It may [...]
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Posted in Anger Management, Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Relationships, Self-Esteem
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Also tagged abuse, appreciation, critique, Emotional Abuse, feelings, Healthy Marriage, humiliation, loneliness, Relationships, resentment
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October 7, 2010 – 10:31 am
In recognizing forms and signs of abuse, it is necessary to establish that abuse can take many forms, and they are not always as obvious as yelling or beating.
Overt abuse is the more obvious form of abuse. The abuser is often aggressive and physically and/or psychologically violent. They may employ vicious name-calling, act with [...]
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Posted in Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem
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Also tagged abuse, aggression, appreciation, conflict, control, critique, Emotional Abuse, feelings, Healthy Marriage, hidden anger, rejection
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In old days, perhaps it was the natural marriage relationship style, the one we saw in our parents’ relationship: the dominating husband, and the sweet subservient wife. It was the norm, and people took that as the logic, expected way to be in a marriage.
It had a dirty secret….if the wife would have different takes [...]