Tag Archives: Self-Esteem

Keeping self-esteem by negotiating your boundaries

In conflict situations, emotional and physical boundaries set the tone for how conflict will be handled, and even when/how conflict will arise. For some, a lack of boundaries creates contact that is more intrusive than intimate; for others, too many boundaries create alienation and distrust between partners. We often hear from clients that the boundaries [...]

Emotions, the Hidden Engine of our Decisions!

How under each decision our emotions are hiding, looking for satisfaction first, and then we get to rationalize our decision.

So you believe to be a rational decision-maker? How wrong can you be?

New research is turning our old assumptions on human nature on their heads…like the belief that humans are rational decision-makers. They are emotional decision-makers…and this new framing opens a world of new possibilities for understand our behavior.

The National Relationships Repair Month project has begun!

We have news for you! The National Relationships Repair Month project has begun!

Being Excluded by Others: A Real Pain in the Brain

When and how is our need for love and connection denied?
In the interpersonal relationship field, we are always doing this dance of connecting and isolating ourselves, going between togetherness and individual action.
But what about group interaction?