How do you react to hubby’s hostile silence?
He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more maddening and crazy than an overt attack…you would prefer to [...]
Trying to understand the confusion that his message: “I love you” causes in your brain, because he says that while he is always busy with everything else but you?
Have you noticed that usually there is a thick curtain of technological devices between you and him, like his cell phone (always in a call with [...]
Whether it’s the man or the woman, when your partner withholds sex it has a definitely bad effect on a relationship. It can be a signal of the smoldering of hidden anger inside a passive aggressive spouse. Over and above what it’s doing to the relationship, what is it doing to you?
Many feel that the [...]
Is very easy to discover the inherent pain that a relationship based on passive aggression brings. It is important that you identify exactly the behaviors that trigger your confusion, isolation or anger, and ascribe them to his peculiar way of doing life in general. You are not responsible for his attitude, learned in his childhood.
A [...]
Are some conversations with your hubby leaving you feeling emotionally drained, dejected, and utterly confused? Do you received the message “I love you” while at the same time he/she is sabotaging your best efforts to do positive things for the couple?
This is maddening, and you need to know what is going on….because being [...]
If you still are debating inside your head the old question: “Does he really love me?” then it is better first to take out the trash. Trash is any hidden emotional abuse you might be suffering.
If there is any sustained, continuous emotional abuse, you can be pretty sure that the genuine love connection is missing. [...]
We have been led to believe that our self esteem depends basically of the positive images others reflects of us to the world…if we are in a situation where a group is having difficulties including us, then the first thought is about our own inadequacy. We look at ourselves for the explanation of any negative reaction of others to our skills or ideas; we look at others when we try to find the reason for our success.
There is a subtle change happening through time in the quality of ongoing male-female relationships, like marriage, when initial expectations of each other are compared with what we really get. If we were dreaming of receiving perhaps real love or deep acceptance and they are not forthcoming, a growing sense of disillusion grows.
Of course what [...]
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