Tag Archives: love

Wounded Children Nation

May 14, 2011 – 10:50 am

When our childhood is attacked by adverse situations in relationship with our parents, the effects can be long lasting in our lives and health. There is no way time only will heal a wounded inner child.

By alfaprima | Posted in Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Comments (1)

Will you be there for me?

May 11, 2011 – 12:54 am

In the inner game of relationships, there are core questions that make or break them.  Those questions refers to the most basic needs we humans have: for companionship and recognition:

Are you accessible when I try to reach out to you?
Will you be responsive to my needs?
Are you committed to this relationship?

In other words, beneath the content of [...]

By alfaprima | Posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Comments (0)

How to Reinforce Love, Day In and Day Out

April 29, 2011 – 12:23 pm

As we learn more and more about the human brain and conflict, we learn more about how to feel better in relationships, how to care for one another, and how to change negative energy into positive energy.
For example – do you and your partner constantly fight? Are there certain behaviors that, whenever your partner does [...]

By alfaprima | Posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , | Comments (2)

Appreciate More, Criticize Less

March 21, 2011 – 4:41 pm

Given that our definition of marriage is that it should be a mutual admiration society, how come the other person is always pointing out our negative aspects and forgetting our good traits?
In other words, that our partner doesn’t show enough appreciation. Yet those who complaint about this are perpetrators as well! There is a certain [...]

By alfaprima | Posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Relationships, Self-Esteem | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , | Comments (2)

Is Conflict our Way of Growing Up?

March 4, 2011 – 11:44 am

Let’s take a different perspective on conflict. Not one that tells the usual story about a victim and a victimizer, but a balanced view including both sides’ perspectives, as two players participating in a shared game:  to get satisfaction of their own needs.
Any relationship is an implicit contract in which both individuals promise to help [...]

By alfaprima | Posted in Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Comments (0)
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