August 10, 2010 – 10:01 pm
There are two ways of doing life: a) Living life as it happens, in a naive way, adapting yourself to what life dishes out to you ( as the facts of family of origin; level of poverty/wealth; educational possibilities; personal health, etc), being resigned to your circumstances and seeing yourself incapable of changing anything. b) [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, Self-Esteem
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Also tagged anger, appreciation, conflict, confrontation, critique, Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, healthy relationships, passive aggression, recognition, Relationships, respect, Self-Esteem
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Are you thinking that good communication is a valuable skill that is needed in your life? What about their impact on healthy relationships? Would you like to know the basic principles involved? 1. We need to treat each other with respect: It means being considerate about other people’s needs, views and situations. Always ask if [...]
Unlike physical abuse, emotional abuse may not heal by itself over time. Given that its impact targets more the psychic areas than the body, you could be unconsciously scarred for a long period of time. Because the damage is on the self-esteem and identity areas, healing emotional abuse means healing primarily both your mind and [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Uncategorized
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Also tagged abuse, abusive relationship, anger, confrontation, Emotional Abuse, feelings, frustration, Healthy Marriage, hidden anger, loneliness, love
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February 26, 2010 – 7:41 pm
When you are a child, all the deal with the grown ups around you revolves on a single question: are they going to help you grow, develop and survive as to be happy as an adult? Or they either don’t care about you, getting you in serious danger of life, or are they going to [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Emotional Abuse, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Uncategorized
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Also tagged abuse, aggression, appreciation, domestic violence, Emotional Abuse, feelings, hidden anger, humiliation, resilience
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October 26, 2009 – 3:34 am
There are times when neglect is not casual, but a little more straightforward. In some situations one person in the relationship is fairly explicit with what they need, asking for it and the other person manages to neglect that need, either directly or indirectly. This is absolutely poisonous to a relationship. There is nothing that [...]