November 18, 2009 – 5:49 am
How do you react to hubby’s hostile silence? He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more maddening and crazy than an overt attack…you would prefer [...]
September 15, 2009 – 2:38 am
In life there are always difficult interpersonal situations, which force us into soul searching because we want to change fast what is hurting us so deeply. Are you kept by your loved one in hurtful, frustrating, and confusing isolation, and you don’t know why? Have you always been afraid of confronting someone you love, [...]
By Nora Femenia
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Posted in Anger Management, Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Relationships, silent treatment, Uncategorized
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Also tagged angry husband, backstabbing, Healthy Marriage, hidden anger, loneliness, silent treatment, the silent treatment
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Trying to understand the confusion that his message: “I love you” causes in your brain, because he says that while he is always busy with everything else but you? Have you noticed that usually there is a thick curtain of technological devices between you and him, like his cell phone (always in a call with [...]
There are a lot of people walking about with a sense of false entitlement, as if others owe them something. They don’t even need to express what they need, because others have to guess or assume what is expected from them. Many of a “cold shoulder” episode between partners stems from this assumption Let’s unpack [...]
By Nora Femenia
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Posted in Anger Management, Emotional Abuse, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships, silent treatment
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Also tagged attacks, chronic anger, hidden anger, resentment, revenge, silent treatment, the silent treatment
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February 22, 2009 – 8:05 pm
Is very easy to discover the inherent pain that a relationship based on passive aggression brings. It is important that you identify exactly the behaviors that trigger your confusion, isolation or anger, and ascribe them to his peculiar way of doing life in general. You are not responsible for his attitude, learned in his childhood. [...]
