Conflict-seeking people have mastered all your emotional buttons, and they push them with regularity. Here, we want to remember that it takes two to tango.
When you are ready to deny them the drama and adrenaline rush (by behaving calmer and less reactive in stressful situations) they initially react very negatively, almost as if they are [...]
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Posted in Anger Management, Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Self-Esteem
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Also tagged aggression, anger, attitude change, confrontation, control, Emotional Abuse, feelings, negative emotions, rejection, respect
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For the chronically angry person, almost everything gives him the opportunity to feel affected and threatened. So, the usual reaction is verbal rage. Venting this rage makes the person feel powerful and in control over others, who have to retreat to a corner to wait the storm out.
For the angry person, this is a satisfactory [...]