CREATIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTIONS » acceptance http://creativeconflicts.com Transforming Differences to Love Connections! Sat, 04 Feb 2012 01:03:14 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 How to Master Positive Relationships http://creativeconflicts.com/2009/02/how-to-master-positive-relationships/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-master-positive-relationships http://creativeconflicts.com/2009/02/how-to-master-positive-relationships/#comments Wed, 25 Feb 2009 04:20:23 +0000 norafem http://creativeconflicts.com/?p=158 If you want to move up the ranks of masterful communication, you have to watch what you say to others. Not just in the showpieces of communication such as a presentation, a memo, or a meeting, but in everyday interaction. Learn these 7 rules and you can quietly and unobtrusively become a master of interpersonal relationships.
1. Be kind. No matter what you say or how you say it, at bottom your communication will always reveal your true thoughts and attitudes. As such, you always have two choices. You can communicate from a standpoint of love or from one of fear. When your communication is laced with sarcasm, blame, threat, anger, anxiety, worry, and control, you are essentially communicating fear. When your communication is laced with respect, appreciation, acceptance, joy, delight, wonder, and acceptance, you are essentially communicating love. If you don’t quite understand the difference, there is an easy way to communicate love not fear: always be kind.
“Words are but pictures of our thoughts.” (John Dryden 1631 – 1700)

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