Attachment patterns are being created even as the child is being delivered from the womb. Attachment to others is inborn and instinctive, part of the brain that evolves as a self-protection measure for the child.
This learned process allows the child to know where the parent is, and how to get close to the parent. With [...]
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Also posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Relationships
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Tagged appreciation, attitude change, confrontation, critique, emotions, loneliness, love, resentment, respect, trust
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At the heart of the human experience is the need to feel loved, and to feel love for others. This connection in its multiple forms goes to the heart of our own identity. What kind of relationships? Better them to be healthy and meaningful, we wish….But in all cases, we tend to reenact the primal [...]
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Also posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships
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Tagged appreciation, conflict, confrontation, critique, forgiveness, happiness, Healthy Marriage, healthy relationships, reconciliation, resilience
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By nature, our brains are wired to desire attachment to others. We are social creatures; even entering into conflict is a manifestation of our mutual need to “link” or “attach” ourselves to another person.
However, the ways we attach to one another depend on many factors, namely, how our mothers/caregivers were attached to us during our [...]
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Also posted in Healthy Marriage, Marriage and Communications, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships
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Tagged attachment, attachment patterns, attachment styles, communication, communication in relationships, conflict in relationships, conflict resolution, Healthy Marriage, healthy relationships, marriage, Passive Aggressive Behavior, passive aggressive spouse, Relationships, trust
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If you are having trouble with your low self-esteem, the first place you should start is your brain. You need to train it to accept praise from others, and to praise itself as well.
Is it possible to condition and program our brains the same way we would on a computer? The answer is yes! (And [...]
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Also posted in Relationships
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Tagged appreciation, attitude change, brain, critique, emotions, feelings, happiness, negative emotions, respect, self-awareness, Self-Esteem, understanding
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When our childhood is attacked by adverse situations in relationship with our parents, the effects can be long lasting in our lives and health. There is no way time only will heal a wounded inner child.
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Also posted in Emotional Abuse, Healthy Marriage, Passive Aggressive Behavior, Relationships
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Tagged aggression, anger, conflict, domestic violence, Emotional Abuse, frustration, healthy relationships, humiliation, isolation, loneliness, love, negative emotions, Relationships, respect, Self-Esteem
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