The silent treatment, also known as the “cold shoulder treatment,” consists of feigned apathy, total silence, and being distant on purpose. One person displays an attitude of complete disinterest for the spouse, as if the other person would be a complete stranger.
This form of emotional abuse can be very disorienting. Being ignored on purpose by [...]
February 26, 2010 – 7:41 pm
When you are a child, all the deal with the grown ups around you revolves on a single question: are they going to help you grow, develop and survive as to be happy as an adult? Or they either don’t care about you, getting you in serious danger of life, or are they going to [...]
By alfaprima
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Also posted in Emotional Abuse, Self-Esteem, Uncategorized
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Tagged abuse, aggression, appreciation, domestic violence, Emotional Abuse, feelings, forgiveness, hidden anger, humiliation, resilience
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February 3, 2010 – 6:40 pm
St. Valentine’s Day is coming again!
Can you ignore it? Of course you can…if it is too painful to remember what it means, right?
Basically, it reminds us of the excitement from love feelings. Love feelings? Ha, what were those, you might ask?
When you first fall in love, there are certain chemicals in your brain that make [...]
December 19, 2009 – 4:40 am
All couples need to learn the fine art of keeping their marriages alive and growing. We bring from our own families of origin some habits that left uncontrolled can be lethal to a love relationship. Even if you are honestly working to stay away from the deadly couple traps listen here, it will not be [...]
By norafem
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Also posted in Anger Management, Healthy Marriage, Uncategorized
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Tagged anger, conflict, confrontation, critique, emotions, frustration, Healthy Marriage, healthy relationships, passive aggression
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November 23, 2009 – 3:43 pm
Did you ever wondered how to deal with your husband but had no one to turn for advice?
Or just wanted to get someone with an external perspective to advice you on how to approach a specific situation that has been troubling your mind for too long?
If that is the case, then we have news for [...]
November 18, 2009 – 5:49 am
How do you react to hubby’s hostile silence?
He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more maddening and crazy than an overt attack…you would prefer to [...]
October 26, 2009 – 3:34 am
There are times when neglect is not casual, but a little more straightforward. In some situations one person in the relationship is fairly explicit with what they need, asking for it and the other person manages to neglect that need, either directly or indirectly. This is absolutely poisonous to a relationship.
There is nothing that can [...]
September 15, 2009 – 2:38 am
In life there are always difficult interpersonal situations, which force us into soul searching because we want to change fast what is hurting us so deeply.
Are you kept by your loved one in hurtful, frustrating, and confusing isolation, and you don’t know why? Have you always been afraid of confronting someone you love, because he/she [...]
Trying to understand the confusion that his message: “I love you” causes in your brain, because he says that while he is always busy with everything else but you?
Have you noticed that usually there is a thick curtain of technological devices between you and him, like his cell phone (always in a call with [...]
Why having a great relationship is so important for all of us?
We cherish love stories because they show us that it is possible to be perfectly loved. All around us people talk about romance, soul-mates and endless love…while being in normal, safe but dull relationships. Is this a collective dream?
What are we all looking for [...]