How changing yourself affects your relationship

You have to begin changing yourself first! So many times people ask how they can change their passive aggressive partner....and my only response is: You can't! I know, it is discouraging....I would love to have another answer, but my only one … [Read more...]

The Abusive Relationship as a Lesson in Resilience?

CAN YOU SEE THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AS A LIFE LESSON IN RESILIENCE? There is much more information about how to identify emotional abuse, than  about the process of breaking free and healing from it. The preferred solution for the victim seems to … [Read more...]

Feeling lonely or isolated in this Thanksgiving holiday??

Are you feeling lonely this Holiday? Here we are again, looking at a new holiday season. It provides us with several opportunities to reevaluate where we are and who loves us... and who doesn't. Perhaps this year the holidays are helping you find … [Read more...]

Relationship Repair Through the Holidays

If yours is like thousands of other families, conflict is inevitable at the holidays, and somehow more painful than usual. And there are no available relationship repair strategies to be used.... Is it because we are bombarded with images and … [Read more...]

How to do Relationship Repair for this “Marriage Contract” ?

  Sharing what Mark Waller, The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn, says in page 111, we have: “The subconscious agenda behind the wedding is that this other person will finally heal our pain. Of course, we are completely unaware of our pain … [Read more...]