All couples need to learn the fine art of keeping their marriages alive and growing. We bring from our own families of origin some habits that left uncontrolled can be lethal to a love relationship. Even if you are honestly working to stay away from the deadly couple traps listen here, it will not be [...]
How do you react to hubby’s hostile silence?
He says nothing, but you know he is mad as hell. He is obviously sulking in front of you, and his attitude fills the room with a very negative vibe. For you, this silent anger is far more maddening and crazy than an overt attack…you would prefer to [...]
Emotional abuse is a serious problem that continues its lingering effect much longer than desirable. As a result of early emotional abuse, many victims develop chronic anger issues, which sometimes looks disconnected from the abuse source. Frequently in order to cope with emotional abuse, people must also identify and cope with the concomitant anger. [...]
In life there are always difficult interpersonal situations, which force us into soul searching because we want to change fast what is hurting us so deeply.
Are you kept by your loved one in hurtful, frustrating, and confusing isolation, and you don’t know why? Have you always been afraid of confronting someone you love, because he/she [...]
Sometimes, when wives ask themselves: Why is he behaving in this nasty way? they try to find an answer to the sadness and disappointment of having to live with an abusive person.
For the chronically angry person, almost everything gives him the opportunity to feel affected and threatened. So, the usual reaction is verbal rage. Venting this rage makes the person feel powerful and in control over others, who have to retreat to a corner to wait the storm out.
For the angry person, this is a satisfactory [...]
If you are a veteran of “office wars,” then perhaps you have experienced a lot of backstabbing, sabotage and nasty behaviors, right? As a normal consequence, you think that there is very little to be done to control this competitive behavior. You have become resigned to a certain degree of aggression every day in the [...]
Why are there people more angry than others? Life is an equal opportunity “dissapointer” …in the sense that there is not a universal right to happiness for anybody. So why some people appear to have more anger issues than others?
It all begins, of course, in infancy, where we all as children have a keen sense [...]
There are a lot of people walking about with a sense of false entitlement, as if others owe them something. They don’t even need to express what they need, because others have to guess or assume what is expected from them. Many of a “cold shoulder” episode between partners stems from this assumption
Let’s unpack what [...]
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